The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate

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Author : Gary Chapman
Binding : Paperback
EAN : 9781881273158
Edition : Reissue
Number of Pages : 204
Product Group : Book
Publication Date : 1992-10-13
Publisher : Northfield Publishing

ASIN : 1881273156

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Simple and to the point (2008-02-26)

I bought this book as an additional aid to a University class that I'm taking. The message of it is very simple, and likely things that people have always noted before. I don't think that it really took a Doctor to write it. Anyone that thinks, feels, and observes their mate, can figure this stuff out. That being said, some people are oblivious, or perhaps don't realize something until it's said and the light bulb goes off.People have different things that makes their heart tick. Each of us respond to love in different ways, and have different needs. The author boils seeing love displayed in five different ways, and when one identifies the language of love their mate speaks, then it will be easier to please them. For quite sometime I have been aware that I'm a "gift" person. I tend to give gifts to those I love, because I myself feel the most love from receiving them.Keep in mind this book is highly Bible based. Some references are very obvious, others are going to be known only by those familiar with the Bible. Some Biblical passages are discussed by the author through the words "an ancient sage once wrote." Nearly everything quoted, including C.S Lewis, is because of their spiritual content. However, even if you aren't one for believing in the Bible, the passages used are still of value since they display common sense.

I loved this book (2007-11-26)

This book is one of the best books on relationships I've ever read, not saying I know everything about relationships, but this opened my eyes and changed the way I looked at all my relationships. Again the best book on relationships, well worth your time!

Finally, a roadmap! (2007-11-01)

When you read this book, the light bulb will finally come on. This book isn't about changing who you are, it's about refining the communication of your feelings so that the recipient (your spouse) GETS the message loud and clear. We're predisposed to loving our spouse in the way we WANT to be loved in return, but according to the implications of the title, 80% of the time, that's not going to work (and from practical experience, this is very true).If you're wondering why your efforts in expressing your love are falling on deaf ears or it "just never seems to be enough", you need to read this book! The disappointments that are associated with the assumption that we know how to love our mate "best" can destroy the most steadfast relationship through years of painful erosion.Read this before you see a lawyer, before you confide in that "secret friend", whether it be in person or on the internet, and before you build any more walls between you and your spouse - you'll likely find that the love of your life is right there in front of you, WANTING to be loved, and wanting to love you right back.S.A.

Understanding relationships (2006-12-06)

This is simply one of the best relationship books ever written. Both my wife and I read the book and completed the action items, and it has helped our marriage immensely. Chapman's insight into how to keep your partner's "love tank" full is innovative and practical. The book is written in easy to read chapters, and Chapman cites his work with other couples to illustrate specific points. By doing so, he gives the reader a "real world" examples of how understanding your partner's love language will strengthen your relationship and open communication. The reader can easily relate to these examples and identify with their challenges, and subsequent victories. My wife and I recommend this book to every couple we know, whether their relationship is good, bad or other.

Valuable, eye-opening and a must have! (2006-06-20)

The concept behind the five love languages is geniusly simple but incredibly important and eye-opening. Dr. Chapman focus on married couples in this book but once you go through the text you may also discover for yourself that it applies to almost every situation and relationship. I was thrilled to find out that my primary language is "Physical touch". Now I know why I tend to stay closer to people whom I like but they don't always understand it.I have wondered why many of my girlfriends couldn't really convince me that they loved and cared about me. They were talking "other languages" such as "I love you", they gave me presents BUT I didn't have the feeling that they meant love. However, a simple hug hits the base. This book will reveal you a lot about yourself and will teach you how to find out and talk other people's "love languages" so you don't end up confused and frustrated. It is one of the most important and valuable books I have read recently and consider it a must have. Additional related bestseller "scientfically guaranteed multiple orgasms and ultimate sex" is also incredibly valuable book for everyone who wants the ultimate in their relationship or marriage. I highly recommend both of them.

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